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In the back of your mind, it’s very easy to dismiss your potential sex partner. Why? You might be thinking that women who go out on sex dates have something wrong with them. Maybe they are sex addicts, maybe they’re drug addicts, maybe they’re emotionally imbalanced or psychologically unhinged. Whatever the case may be, there’s something wrong with them, they’re defective. And if you hang on to these assumptions, it will screw up the date. Why? A lot of the times you will be talking down to them, you’ll be condescending. Other times you’ll be treating them like damaged children. Whatever the case is, you’re treating them in a way that they don’t deserve to be treated.

They’re human beings, respect that. They are liberated people, they have jumped all that traditional bullshit that kept people from living up to their fullest emotional, psychological, mental, physical, and yes, sexual potential. If anything, they’re more evolved than you. A little respect goes a long way. Don’t think that you’re dealing with a damaged person. Instead, look forward to a great time of mutual discovery and yes, fun.

Be Confident

You have to remember that just because you are on a sex date it doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s going to be a slam dunk. The woman you’ve met with and you’re going out on a date with might have said yes to sex, but guess what? She can always take it back, and it’s her right, and you cannot tell a judge that just because a woman said yes to you and you took it all the way, that it’s not right. She can always say no. Even if you’re in the middle of pumping her or she’s sucking your dick, and she decides to say no, you have to respect that. So, the problem here is, she will say no if she sees that you are jelly inside or if she detects softness or weakness.

Allow yourself to be confident. All people on this planet have something they could be confident about. Focus on those, project it outwards, and give her the good time she deserves.

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